All the Bright Places is a heartbreaking novel about two high school students
whose relationship changes the way they both perceive reality. For seventeen
year old Violet Markey life seems to be at a stand still, filled with trivial events
and trivial people. After the death of her older sister, Violet feels broken and
confused about her own identity. She doubts the person she used to be and
wishes to break out of the prison she feels confined in. Theodore Finch on the
other hand is an energetic yet seemingly odd boy who suffers from Bipolar
disorder. He just wants to be loved and to be the farthest thing from normal
his town has ever seen. The day the two meet (a day on which both kids were
planning to kill themselves) Violet’s entire world flips upside down. She begins
to see meaning in her life again through Finch’s odd personality. As Violet and
Finch’s relationship blooms, life begins to seem worth living to Violet, but
Finch’s world continues to crumble.
I loved this book, but I was heartbroken and sobbing about it for weeks after.
The novel has a way of resonating with the reader through the characters.
Theodore Finch’s character is all over the place, and his spontaneous actions
filled the book with a sense of adventure. He is silly and fun and unlike any
other character I have ever read before. His thought process is unique and
entertaining, and the way he cares for Violet is beautiful. He loves her selflessly
and makes her well being his top priority. Not only does he care so selflessly for
Violet, but also for everyone else in his life. He puts everyone else’s well being
before himself, which is both admirable and a fatal flaw. Though the book is a
love story, it has so much more to offer than just a typical boy-meets-girl
relationship. Readers watch as Finch suffers and sinks further into his
depression and see Violet slowly become the woman she wants to be.
The book really focuses in on what it would be like to live with Bipolar
disorder. As someone who does not have this disorder, it was almost a rude
awakening to see how much Finch had to go through and deal with on a daily
basis. I was left thinking about him for months after the I read it. Just like
Finch, so many people suffer with mental health, but have no access to outside
help. (Another thing I will say is that the author does not have bipolar disorder
herself, but did do extensive research on it. So I am not sure how accurate the
book is at portraying the disorder.)
I also liked how realistic the relationships in the book are. Niven’s portrayal of
the average teenage friendship was freakishly accurate. As Violet grows as a
person, she begins to see the selfishness and toxicity of her so called “friends”.
Violet saw first hand how the people she used to love to be around now drive
her crazy and that her old life is nothing like the one she wants to live in the
future. The situations Violet encounters are very much like ones regular kids
encounter today.
This book was excellent. But I am warning you don’t read this book and expect
a happy ending. Its a realistic story about grief and relationships and mental
health that is going to scar you (in a heart-wrenching yet beautiful way).
Checkout All the Bright Places from the Newport Beach Public Library.